093. Do I spend enough quality time with my kids, or am I always working? (The Absent Parent)

  1. 1. Pro: Spending quality time with children can strengthen the parent-child bond, improve communication, and support emotional development.
    Harvard Graduate School of Education: [Importance of Quality Time]
    https://www.gse.harvard.edu/ideas/edcast/20/04/benefit-family-mealtime
  2. 2. Con: Balancing work and family responsibilities can be challenging, and guilt over not spending enough time with children can be stressful.
    Psychology Today: [Work-Family Balance]
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/accept-pain-for-change/202404/work-life-balance-means-work-life-harmony
  3. 3. Unsure: Prioritizing quality over quantity, such as engaging in meaningful activities together, can help make the most of limited time.
    Verywell Family: [Making Quality Time Count]
    https://www.familytoday.com/family/5-reasons-why-quality-family-time-is-important/
  4. 4. Pro: Regularly scheduled family activities and routines can ensure consistent and meaningful interaction with children.
    Child Mind Institute: [Creating Family Routines]
    https://childmind.org/article/how-can-we-help-kids-with-transitions/
  5. 5. Con: Long work hours and job demands can limit the time available for family, leading to feelings of disconnection.
    The Balance Careers: [Balancing Work Demands]
    https://www.msd.govt.nz/about-msd-and-our-work/publications-resources/journals-and-magazines/social-policy-journal/spj35/35-parents-long-work-hours.html
  6. 6. Unsure: Setting boundaries for work and family time, such as disconnecting from work emails during family hours, can help balance both responsibilities.
    Forbes: [Setting Boundaries for Work and Family]
    https://ideas.ted.com/how-to-set-clear-work-boundaries-jayne-hardy/
  7. 7. Pro: Active involvement in children’s activities, such as attending school events or playing together, can reinforce parental presence and support.
    Mayo Clinic: [Parental Involvement in Activities]
    https://www.publicschoolreview.com/blog/parental-involvement-is-key-to-student-success
  8. 8. Con: Overcommitting to work and family activities can lead to burnout and reduced effectiveness in both areas
    Why work-life balance is so important
    https://www.verywellmind.com/why-work-life-balance-is-so-important-8374683
  9. 9. Unsure: Regular self-assessment and open communication with family members about their needs and expectations can help adjust priorities effectively.
    American Psychological Association (APA): [Family Communication]
    https://mentalhealthmatch.com/articles/relationships/families/most-important-elements-of-healthy-family-communications